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A few years ago in Bangkok, I met a guy in his 30s, like me, who enlightened me with a sexual experience that was like nothing I’d had before. It was the highest and longest lasting pleasure I’ve ever enjoyed. My eyes were opened to what is possible from mutual masturbation, frottage, frot, or cock2cock. But for me, these terms do not capture the mind blowing experience so, I’m calling it cock bonding because it elicits what I could only describe as a brotherly connection. In this story, I will share the method of what this guy showed me and what I have gone on to share with so many others…

Get Started

Start things off with some regular side by side mutual masturbation, maybe with porn, to get fully horned, into it and ready to increase the intensity. Then, get naked and sit facing each on a bed, sofa, or even on the floor. Close the gap between you until your dicks are close and you can feel the warmth between your bodies.

basic starting position for penis bonding frot cock2cock

Penis bonding: This is the basic position to get started. Kissing is optional, but towards the end, it will probably feel pretty natural to do it.

Get into it

Apply coconut oil to each other’s dick and start stroking each other. Don’s use water based lube, it will dry and get sticky. As an option, shaved privates will increase the pleasure when combined with the oil. Coconut oil allows for a firm grip that intensifies pleasure without causing pain. If uncut, you will find that you can even rub his sensitive knob, which will further enhance the pleasure you generate. This stage is tricky because you need to find a stroke that works for each of you. On my first experience, he guided us towards a tight grip with deep, slow strokes that included a twist around the head. Encourage, guide and remind your mate to maintain a stroke that works for your cock. Likewise, you’ll find it easy to inadvertently relax your grip on his cock as you begin to goon out on the pleasure from your cock. It’s worth restating this – If one isn’t achieving the same pleasure, they will get bored and you’ll both miss the boat. In this first experience I frequently got distracted as my mind shorted out but my confident mate would direct me to adjust my stroke for him as needed and this is how we kept aligned.

Step it up

Poppers is not a critical addition but boy do I recommend it. If you use it, both use it. Have a good quality bottle nearby and introduce it after a nice period of rolling. For those unfamiliar with it, poppers will focus your minds on lust, to the point of bringing about “a raw, animal-like sexuality”. Take your time, edge it out if necessary, enjoy it fully and for as long as you can both stand it – These feelings are the pleasure you want to ride and any orgasm at the end is simply the sweet cherry on the top of what was already a huge ice cream.

Now, inch yourselves even closer together so that your cocks are directly pressed against each other – it’s a powerful moment. Again, add oil if you want, and continue stroking each other as before. When you stare down between you, the best way I can describe it is penis soup and it’s pretty hot to see, especially with poppers. The intensity of each others stroking and groaning will rise in tandem until you reach a magic moment in which you’ll feel like his dick, which is in your hand, is actually your dick. This is truly incredible and something that only two men can experience. You’ll revel in the union of your manhood, your most intimate and cherished part of your being as men. Again, you can use poppers to help induce this incredible sensation. So, just when you thought it couldn’t get any better, it still does.

Two black guys on a bed penis bonding, frot, cock2cock

Penis bonding: Once you start rolling, you wont be able to remain still.

Finish goooood

Intensify your cock bonding experience as you head towards the finish line by creating a more intimate stroking technique. By this time, you should both be stroking frantically, less methodically and feeling an intense sense of gratefulness for the other amid groans and masturbation sounds. Now without stopping, switch it up by embracing your dicks together with one hand each. With this change your dicks are sliding directly against each other, maintain the intensity and thrust your hips if you want to – anything to max out the bliss. Your penis, your pride, is being rubbed and stimulated by his and your hands, and the coconut oil, and it all works perfectly.

Three cocks in throws of penis bonding frot pleasure

Cock bonding: Final stage of cock union involving direct penis rubbing and communal stroking.. These guys are doing it as a three way, why not?

From here just goon out, find the bate hole and dive into it together. Embrace each other tightly if you like. You may want to kiss. Look at each other and recognise that you have created this amazing experience together and it will become a lasting source of connection between you.

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